Just a Smidge

Matthew 26:41: “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

     My uncle only allowed himself a smidge when eating sweets. He would slice off a sliver of triple-layer chocolate cake with thick frosting to satisfy his craving for sugar without overindulging.

     However, he never stopped at just “one smidge.” Tiny slice by tiny slice, over the span of an afternoon, the entire cake was demolished. This is the way of temptation. My uncle never intended to overindulge but he lacked the willpower to resist.

     Most of us have had one of those “I can’t believe I ate that” moments. My weakness is the small loaves of warm sourdough bread with butter the waitress places on the table at San Francisco seafood restaurants on Fisherman’s Wharf.

An entire cake or loaf of bread is no big deal, right?

A Smidge is Never Enough

     Self-indulgence is that crack that begins to fracture godly characteristics, such as self-control. Soon the flesh takes over and indulgence becomes our practice.

     The Apostle Paul used the metaphor of yeast in a lump of dough to show how sin, if not addressed, spreads. In 1 Corinthians 5:6-8 he wrote: “A little leaven leavens the whole lump. Cleanse out the old leaven that you may be a new lump…For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed.” In this passage, Paul was instructing the church, explaining that if Christians overlook sin in the body of Christ, it will quietly spread.

When we consistently fail to resist an extra slice of cake or piece of bread, we eventually damage ourselves physically. My uncle developed Type 2 diabetes. But from a spiritual aspect, we set ourselves up for future failure. These seemingly minor desires that gratify our flesh can lead us to greater infractions.

In His Word

     The instruction to watch and pray so as to not fall into temptation was given to Peter in the garden of Gethsemane shortly before Jesus was arrested. Jesus took His disciples to the garden after eating the Passover meal with them and initiating the Lord’s Supper. But before the chief priests and elders came to arrest Jesus, accompanied by crowds carrying swords and clubs, He stepped aside with Peter, James, and John to pray. He asked them to watch with Him, then He fell on His face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.” (Matthew 26:39)

     After pouring His heart out to His Father, He returned to the three and found them sleeping. He asked, “Could you not watch with me one hour?”

     “Peter and his fellow disciples had promised to be faithful to death, and yet they went to sleep! They needed to pray for themselves, because danger was around the corner,” wrote Warren Wiersbe in Be Loyal, his commentary on the book of Matthew.1

     To watch and pray means to be both physically and spiritually awake. By watching, we do what we can in our power, and by praying we seek God’s power. We cannot stand when tempted without God’s help.2

     What are we to be watching for? Anything that entices us to stray from God’s will. Jesus dreaded the cup of judgment but endured because His sacrifice was the only way to pay the penalty for sin. Without it, you and I could not be forgiven of our sins and saved from judgment.

Walking It Out

     All that entices us is referred to as temptation, which is the lure from within or without to act contrary to God’s Word or character. We sin when we give in to temptation.

     Therefore, we are not only to be watchful but also pray. David Guzik wrote in his online commentary Enduring Word, “The spiritual battle is often won or lost before the crisis comes.”2

     Perhaps that is why Jesus directed His comments to Peter in these passages. Although two other disciples were present, it was Peter who would deny Jesus three times that very night. Yet he had boldly told Jesus, “Though they all fall away because of you, I will never fall away.” (Matthew 26:33)

     Those of us who are in Christ are like Peter. Our spirit is willing- “We will never fall away!” we exclaim. But just like Peter we soon discover our flesh is weak. Yes, our intentions are sincere but human nature is frail.

     Therefore, we must be watchful. What are we allowing to seep into our life that could fracture our resolve and lead to our downfall? Remember the metaphor of yeast in a lump of dough. A little sin can quickly spread corrupting the individual and even those around him or her.

     Just as my uncle could not stop at one smidge, neither can we. So let’s be watchful and pray, that we might recognize all that tempts us and be able to stand by the power of the Holy Spirit. In this way, we will not succumb to that smidge that leads to another and another.

©2025 Susan Cort Johnson *All Rights Reserved

References:

1 Be Loyal, by Warren W. Wiersbe. Victor, Cook Communications Ministries, Colorado Springs, Colorado.

2 Enduring Word commentary by David Guzik, enduringword.com.

Take it to the Lord like Martha

Most of us have read countless analyses of Luke 10:38-42, which is the story of Martha complaining to Jesus that her sister, Mary, is not helping her serve the guests in their home. She is told her sister, who has chosen to sit at the feet of Jesus and listen to His teaching, has made the wise choice.

I am not reviewing this section of Scripture to offer a critique of Martha. Instead, I want to commend her for taking this issue to Jesus. When I am anxious and troubled about many things, do I go directly to Jesus? Do you?

Situations often cause anxiety and sleepless nights. It could be a responsibility we have that is physically and mentally draining. Or harsh scrutiny of the things we say and do resulting in accusations by people to which we don’t know how to respond.

But in this short passage recorded by Luke, we see that Martha was open and honest with Jesus about her feelings. Some criticize her for questioning His compassion… “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone?” Some say Jesus is not Lord of her life if she is bossing Him around… “Tell her then to help me.”

However, her honesty resolved the issue. Jesus called her by name twice, reassuring her of His love before giving her the hard truth.

“Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:41-42 ESV

Have you ever sung the song “What a Friend We Have in Jesus”? The author, Joseph Scriven, writes about Jesus bearing our sins and all that grieves our hearts. While we can no longer physically sit at His feet like Mary, we can still talk with Him in prayer.

In verse three of this hymn, we sing:

“Are we weak and heavy-laden,

     Cumbered with a load of care?

Precious Savior, still our refuge

Take it to the Lord in prayer;

Do thy friends despise, forsake thee?

Take it to the Lord in prayer;

In His arms He’ll take and shield thee,

Thou wilt find a solace there.”1

When Jesus released His spirit at the time of His death on the cross, the veil in the temple tore in two from top to bottom. This veil, which separated the Holy place from the Holy of Holies, was 30-feet high, 60-feet wide, and four-inches thick. The High Priest was the only person who could go beyond the veil and enter the Holy of Holies, and only on the day of atonement. One person on one day could stand in the presence of God. Then the veil tore because Jesus Christ atoned for our sins on the cross and access to God was available to everyone. All who acknowledge Jesus as Lord and Savior can walk into the presence of God. Sin no longer separates us because we are forgiven.

When we pray, we find ourselves in Martha’s position, the very presence of God.

Let’s remember the lyrics of “What a Friend We Have in Jesus” and carry everything to Him in prayer.

©2023 Susan Cort Johnson *All Rights Reserved

Let’s Talk:

1-When was the last time you poured your heart out to Jesus? What was His response?

References:

1-“What a Friend We Have in Jesus (1855). Lyrics by Joseph Scriven (public domain).

Draw Closer to God Through Prayer

     “Draw near to God.” This is one of the 54 directives James gives in his letter to the twelve tribes in the Dispersion.

     How do I move toward, come closer, approach God?

     When I think about the steps people took to move closer before Christ made it possible for us to freely walk into His presence the contrast is astonishing. In Exodus chapter 19 we read that God told Moses He would come down on Mount Sinai in the sight of all the people, but before they could meet with God special instructions had to be followed. First came consecration, then limits were set. “Don’t go up into the mountain or touch the edge of it.”

When God appeared, the mountain was wrapped in smoke and trembled. The voice of the Lord came in thunder. (Exodus 19:7-25)

     In modern society our steps are much less daunting. We grow closer to God through Bible study, worship, prayer, and fellowship with like-minded Christians. Shared experience has always been beneficial to me. Hearing the stories of brothers and sisters in Christ is like a new page to the manuscript of old. How God meets us as we seek Him.

     Instructions in a book I have been reading on studying God’s Word, written by Jen Wilkin, inspired a way to draw near through prayer.1

     Use the acronym PART, she suggested, which stands for praise, admit, request, and thank. Then she gave examples on what you might pray in each category before, during, and after Bible study.

     Although her examples were for Bible study, this thoughtful prayer seems a good way to approach every moment, each day.

     Praise God for the revelation we receive about His character as we study, she wrote. Can’t we do this as we see God in the midst of our situation when we see His provision, unfailing love, grace, or mercy?

To explain the final letters of the acronym she states that we can admit to frustration or confusion as we study the text. We can request help with the hard passages and thank Him when we receive correction from the scriptures.

Use PART to consistently pray throughout the day

     We may spend time in the presence of the Lord early in the morning before the sun rises while the household is just stirring and preparing to meet the day. But we can also spontaneously pray from morning to evening. Prayers spoken on the fly perhaps uttered while driving, while pushing a cart through the grocery store, at our work desk, and during dinner prep.

     Got a doctor’s appointment? Praise Yahweh Rophe, the Lord who heals. Admit that you are fearful about the medical journey you may be on and that you are desperate for an outpouring of His grace. Request that He heal you and thank Him for providing the medical care that you need.

     Are you giving a presentation at work, or speaking at a women’s event at your church? Praise God for His direction, as the Holy Spirit inspires you and the tools you need become evident. Admit your insecurities and request that God will give you the peace you need when you stand before your audience. Lastly, thank Him for His faithfulness.

     Is your day feeling mundane, ordinary? Praise God for the example He sets for order. Each time I read about the Israelites in the wilderness breaking camp I am reminded that the process He set in place was far from chaotic, each tribe moving at an appointed time. Admit that you are feeling bored and request that God help you find something extraordinary about the day. Thank Him for the clothes you are washing, the bed you just made, and the food in your cupboard for dinner.

     Making prayer PART of our daily life will take practice. It may be something we need to remind ourself at first. But I think it helps us remember God is present. Also, we address our sin swiftly and repent. Not by our willpower but by recognizing our need for God in the process. And we focus on thankfulness rather than complaining.

     In Scripture we are told that God inhabits the praises of His people. (Psalm 22:3) Obviously, praise will bring us closer to God. But so will confessing our sins, seeking Him for help, and remaining in a state of thankfulness. Such activity keeps our focus upon Him, therefore we will become more aware of all He is doing in our life.

©2023 Susan Cort Johnson *All Rights Reserved

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Let’s Talk:

1-If you find yourself praying throughout the day, please share what prompts your prayer.

2-Try the acronym PART as a prayer prompter for a day and then return to this comment section to share what impact it had on your relationship with God.

References:

1-Women of the Word, How to Study the Bible with Both Our Hearts and Our Minds by Jen Wilkin. Published by Crossway Wheaton, Illinois.